Where are the nice (but not too nice), decent, sensitive men? Where are the guys who are interested in connecting emotionally with a woman, who are mature and honest about their feelings?
Who or what is a sensitive man?
Traditional, conventional. They follow the rules, they respect authority, they're meticulous and orderly. When it comes to relationships, "They want to behave. They want to do it right," They're the least likely to go racing off on a honeymoon. They want their friends to like the person. They value the rules of courtship, they tend to be drawn to women with personalities similar to their own.
If every man stops to think about the one thing all women want more of in a relationship, chances are it's TLC. Although tender loving care encompasses many emotions and acts, it boils down to the sensitivity of a man. As long as men are sensitive, women are happy.
The problem is that if you start giving in to your feminine side, you will also be giving in to her wants. But is this really what women want? Do Women Want A Sensitive man?
No matter what your girlfriend may say about opening up and sharing your true emotions, be wary. Giving in to this might just cost you the same girlfriend that asked for it in the first place. When asked what ladies think about sensitve men, i recieved replies: " Those men are bitch ass niggas, i can't handle emotional baggage, i don't want any cry baby." One male even stated " It just don't look rite."
Women want a take-charge and authoritative man that can take care of business; a decisive man that can get things done, but with a tender heart. How nice should u be?
Spending more time understanding what your woman means when she says she has a headache, is a good thing. The secret to long-lasting relationships is the learning curve that keeps it alive. Learning something new about your mate is as important as not forgetting her birthday, and we all know how important that is. If being nice and the little things makes her happy then by all means do so.
But how far should you take it? It's our nature to always want more of a good thing, thereby risking saturation. For example, if you alternate the choice of movies you see together, and she suddenly begins insists on seeing more of her movies, and you cave, well the saturation has already taken place. If you don't understand this issue and don't see the problem, then the damage may already be done. If you're already too nice, then you need to backtrack and be more of a jerk. But if your machismo and toughness are costing you a nice girl, then think about what you could be doing to be (or at least sound) more caring. A sensitive mate picks up on the undercurrents of emotional distress in a relationship, and cares enough to do something about it. A sensitive guy done right can take criticism, filter it, and use it to better himself - not impotently rage at its source. A sensitive man is adept at all those little gestures in a relationship, and doesn't need to be coerced into stepping outside the norm to demonstrate how much the relationship means to him.
Dating the sensitive guy can be the most romantic thing on the face of the earth. He says and does all the right things that put most women into a state of euphoria. He calls, on time, apologizes for the least little thing that may have hurt you feelings, and never lets you down. He buys you little gifts. You know the ones that aren't really expensive, but there's such deep meaning behind him. Yes, this man truly seems to be "Sensitive" to everything you think, need, and feel.
So there you have it, women want someone she can connect with emotionally but still holds firm his masculinity. We don't want to be thinking there's a probability he might be gay. I personally don't mind a sensitive man :)))
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