Break-ups can be difficult. Maybe that’s one of the reason our minds are in denial in spite of the break-up signs that are presented before us; and who can blame some of us girls who were single for so long. Our temporary ‘Prince Charming’ came, but only to turn into a toad. The fact that our relationship may be unfolding before us can be a hard thing to grasp.
Still, while it’s difficult to break-up and start fresh, it can be even more excruciating to attempt to hold on to someone who has emotionally let you go for quite some time. Normally before a break-up occurs there are a few signs that we should look for. Pay attention to these signs.
You argue more than not.
If your arguments outweigh your normal conversations, you could just be going through a rough patch in your relationship. Still, it’s something to be mindful of to ensure that your relationship isn’t coming to an end. Try to be rationale and figure out the causes of the arguments.
You haven’t heard from him in a couple of days.
If you and your man normally talk a few times a day but that’s changed to a few times a week, this should peak your atennas. Why have the conversations lessened?
He flirts more via social network
This may sound silly but if your man all of a sudden ‘befriends’ random girls or is open with his social network flirting, chances are he’s being open in other areas. Publicly acting as if he’s on the market may be a sign that he will be soon.
He no longer has sex with you.
Sex or other physical contact was a normal occurrence in your relationship but now its scarce, this could be a red flag. Even more so, if your sex now seems routine and lacks emotion, you may be headed for break-up
You get the impression that you’re annoying him
If you get the impression that you’re bothering him, you probably are. If you’re the one calling, planning dates, or initiating conversations and he seems irritated by all of these acts, he just may be over you. Of course, there’s that fine line of him just having a bad couple of days, but if this has been happening for quite some time, you should probably prepare yourself for a break-up.
He tells you he needs a break
Some people really just need a break while others use this as an easy trasition out of a relationship. Maybe he really needs a break, but also prepare yourself for a break that could be indefinite.
Your tears don’t work anymore.
If your tears or any of the other things you used to do to provoke a reaction from him no longer work, his emotions may no longer be in the relationship. Be mindful of his reactions to your conversations or the things that seem important to you. If he doesn’t seemed phased, he may be ‘phasing’ out of the relationship.
He turns away from opportunities to talk
If you are constantly trying to talk about the issues in your relationship and your man turns away from the opportunity, he may have mentally or emotionally removed himself from the relationship. Consider that he may not be conversing because of your approach; but if you haven’t been a nag nor invaded his space, he may be ‘over’ talking about the relationship. In turn, he may actually be ‘over’ the relationship.
